Life, in it’s own way, has taught me that… All that happens…. Does happen for good!
There must have been times when life really might have seemed uncertain and unfair. Well, this feeling had always haunted me for a long time, thereby making me the Master of the Blame-Game. No matter what it was, if anything did go wrong, it was NOT ME!
Well, its said that Experience does make you realize a lot of things and it sure did! When I do look back, (quite unnatural in my case though) the view-point seems to have gone through a renaissance. Rather than looking at what life has taken away from me, it seemed quite different. It showed me what life has given me instead and for the first time, made me realize what others have really lost because of me. Well, the chauvinist, selfish and the mean person, somehow seems to have over powered a major part of my life.
Better late than never! But then, the very realization about the very fact that I have been cursing others for seemed to have shown me what I can do now to be a better person in the future. Every incident, be it an accident or something meant, now makes me see through things before acting upon them. Every event that has happened in every part of a so-called episode of life (though I had always cursed people and the environment that I was bought up in) has made me realize that… Whatever Happens, Happens for Good. Incidents, events, accidents….. All of them have a purpose. A realization to make life better. A purpose to make a better human than what we actually were.
A realization that Relationships are an essential ingredient for one’s success. A place where a simple smile can overcome the worst nightmares and a state where, thoughts are simply thoughts. Something that do not provoke a deeper thinking of how much we have gone down. Live Life! For its the one thing that you own…
A quote that said, “Realization is a part of Everyday Life” seems to make sense now!!
Thanks,
Santosh Dolai
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